Just Saying..

Love your man or believe me somebody else is going to do it for you. Oh that probably wasn't politically correct but let me tell you nothing in life really is. We often times tip toe around subjects that seem a little to touchy or sensitive but you will soon find that i am definitely not one of those people. I have researched the numbers and studies show that 65.7 percent of marriages end because people are not talking anymore. I find that number to astounding and unbelieveable but knowing what I know now. I can fully understand and concur.

I have seen my fair share of long lasting relationships and the one thing that they all have in common was they were all old school lovers. Old school lovers didn't have the ever evolving technology that thrives so much in today's society. The only compromise they had to deal with was "is my man coming home tonight?" Even in their wrong doings they had enough understanding that you didn't bring the outside trash back home. I'm quite sure that everyone over the age of thirty knows the unwritten rule. It was known that back in the day the man could go out and do whatever so long as he doesn't bring anything home to momma. And yes that means children.

So why don't marriages last. In my opinion communication is a major factor but there were also mitigating factors such as a microwavable thought process. We live in a era of right now instead of Mr. and Mrs Right. The thought behind that thinking is purely superficial, meaning why work hard for what Iwant when it is easier to accept the simplicity of life. With all this talk of why marriages don't last you would have to go back to the base question of is marriage sacred anymore?

I know that this question is one that needs not be explained but in my humble opinion I would have to say no. Dont get me wrong marriage is still something special but today's marriages are not being built on the foundation and belief of God. The bible condems homosexuality and if same sex marriages are legal by law how can I then say that marriages are scared when it totally contradicts what I beleive. In my honest opinon the sactinty of marriage was lost the day we decided that we knew more than God.